So I met him at college and for the two and a half months he was really flirty with me and always asked me to study with him and he would be touchy. He would also invite me to things with his friends or even to go play football with his boys. I would always flirt back and I thought that he liked me. He was in a frat for awhile and still had this pledge pin and i was looking at it one day (holding it) and he said oh you know if you touch my pledge pin you have to kiss me. So I laughed and was like you are making that up. He also made a bet with me and I lost and he said that now I owe him two kisses. So one night I was alone in his room and we were cuddling and he looked up the rules for the pledge pin to show me and it said the guy had to kiss the girl. So I was like see now you owe ME two kisses. And he was really nervous and he went in to kiss me but he backed away twice! and then his roommate came in so I went to bed.
A few weeks later he found out I liked him.. surprise?.. and I went to ask him straight up how he felt about me. He said that he was playing me and that he always had a problem with playing girls. He said he thinks I am really pretty but he is looking for his wife in college and I apparently can not be in a long term relationship?. So I was really hurt over this but agreed just to be friends.
Things were kinda awkward and we didn’t flirt anymore and didnt joke around at all like we used to.
Things also go really tense and we fought a lot and he also talked shit about me behind my back to my friends saying that I put on an act to get attention which isn’t true and I confronted him about it and it turned into a huge deal.
We sorted things out, I guess and we are now on break. I am going back to school and will see him all the time because we have the same group of friends and he lives across the hall from me.

What do you think? Everyone thinks that he likes me but doesn’t know how to handle his feelings because he’s never really been in a relationship before and has no game or balls. I also should add he told me that he had feelings for me when we started studying together but then when he realized I started to have feelings for him he backed away…

Ideas? he’s confusing.
I did back way off for awhile and when I do this he always makes an effort to come to my room for some stupid reason or yell my name through my window and he even told me to promise him I would come over. but i told him that I wasn’t going to make any promises. This was after the huge fight.

• Ok, so he TOLD YOU he’s a player, and that he played you, and he talked sh*t about you behind your back.

  Soooo, how is this confusing to you again?

  Let me explain this, as a guy who knows guys exactly like this guy. He’s just going to f**k you and forget you. That’s what they do. So, you have been warned.

  I expect in a few months will be a new question, “This guy f**ked me and now he won’t talk to me. So confused.”

• Maybe he’s gay
• Sounds like he isn’t ready to commit completely. I say just hang out and be friends for now. Maybe he will realize that he really likes you and want to be with you. Otherwise, he isn’t really worth it and you can find that out sooner rather than waiting around for him.
• Back off, back way off. This is anything but healthy. This is not mature on either of your sides. Attend a church service on campuss and open your heart to Jesus. Forget this fellow and quit the hooking up and hanging out. Develop yourself spiritually, ask Jesus to send your husband into your life. This husband will not be a stumbling block, or confusing. Jesus is the way the truth and the life! ps I like the Newman center on campus!
• This boy sounds two faced if you ask me. What im trying to say is that my guess is that hes a player and just
  “Used” you for his sexual needs. Someone probably found out about this and may of told him that your not the prettiest girl, which i am sure is a total lie, and now he doesnt want to seem like a guy that goes for
  “Ugly” chicks. But in time he will begin to realize that all the times of cuddling and messing around were amazing times and he will start talking with you again. If i were you i would continue to be his friend but no more touchy feely. Hes only going to use you.
• Sounds like a guy who doesn’t know what he wants. Therefore, this is the perfect chance for you to get out there and meet new people at college. Date other guys. Don’t get hung up over this one! No matter how much you wanted to hook up with him, you two were never an item! It would be interesting to see how he reacts when he finds out that you are dating another guy. His true feelings will show then! Jealousy? Would he even care? who knows.
• I think you shouldn’t be close to him like it. And now you should forget him. I’m sorry about you. I had this awful experience to.

Posted on January 13th, 2012 by admin
Filed under: College football betting